Tithing Has More To Do With Our Attitudes Than Our Money

“Each man should give what he has decided in his heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.” (2 Corinthians 9:7)

Last week, I received a telephone call from a angry reader who labeled me a hypocrite and said I had no right to tell anyone how their priorities should be organized. “Oh great, I thought. If the column on priorities offended him, then next week’s column on tithing is sure to add insult to injury.”

Some believers argue that the whole notion of tithing is an Old Testament practice, largely from Mosaic Law, and does not apply to any of us who live under grace. They seem to forget that it was Jesus who said, “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets, I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. I tell you the truth, until heaven and earth disappear, not the smallest letter, not the least stroke of a pen, will be any means disappear until everything is accomplished.” (Matthew 5:17-18)

The fact is both the Old and New Testaments reinforce that God expects us to tithe a tenth of our income. It’s not negotiable. The problem is that we get so bogged down in the legalism of tithing that we miss the whole point. Tithing is not something that we have to do. The born-again Christian should want to tithe.

Frankly, I don’t know a whole lot about what it’s like to tithe. I’ve only been doing it for three years. You see, when I was saved in 1991, at the age of 38, the only way I could become a tither was to turn my back on my creditors which is also unbiblical. “It is better that you should not vow than that you should vow and not pay.” (Ecclesiastes 5:5)

I ultimately decided to seek pastoral counseling. I attended a Presbyterian church when I came to know the Lord so I sought the counsel of my Presbyterian minister. He agreed that even though I had become a slave to my lenders (Proverbs 22:7), I could not tithe at the expense of my creditors. He reminded me, however, that God knew the desires of my heart and advised me to put a little more in the plate when I could. “Let God take care of that problem,” he told me. Within 3 years, God found a way to help me pay my bills and tithe.

We need to remember that God is not as concerned about the till as he is about our hearts when it comes to tithing. He’s much more interested in our attitude towards tithing than how much we put in the plate. Sure he expects us to tithe because tithing is an outward and visible sign of our acknowledgment that it really belonged to him all along. The whole purpose of tithing is to teach us that God wants to enjoy first priority in our lives which is why the word, first fruits, is often used synonymously with tithes.

The Lord expects nothing less than the best from us when it comes to tithing, and he wants us to do with an attitude of joy. If we do, God says, “…and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that you will not have room enough for it.” (Malachi 3:10) My father-in-law says it another way, “You can’t out give God.”